Self-help questions for you when considering the abortion pill

If you’re here, you’re probably considering an abortion or thinking about taking the abortion pill.

An abortion is a big decision and people don’t make it lightly. That’s why we’ve put together some helpful resources for you as you consider the abortion pill.

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What questions should I be asking myself when considering the abortion pill?

Everybody’s journey is unique, and these questions might help as you figure out what your journey looks like.

  • How can I slow down so I make the right decision for me?
  • What’s my situation, and what story am I telling myself about my situation?
  • Do I know for sure that I’m pregnant? Have I confirmed it with a free pregnancy test
  • Have I just found out I’m pregnant, or have I had some time to reflect on my feelings?
  • If I wanted to continue the pregnancy, what support would I need?
  • What do I think the after-abortion journey will look like?
  • What is making me feel I need an abortion?
  • Is anything – a person, my family, circumstances – making me feel like I have no options?

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What questions should I be asking my abortion provider when considering the abortion pill?

An abortion is a medical procedure, so you need to know everything that’s involved. Here are some questions you might consider asking your abortion provider:

  • What are the risks of taking abortion pills?
  • What are the potential complications?
  • How certain are we of the pregnancy gestation?
  • What kind of pain levels and bleeding should I expect?
  • What are signs that I need to get emergency help or phone an ambulance?
  • How long can an abortion from abortion pills take?
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What is the abortion pill - for you?

This section summarises NHS, BPAS, and NICE medical information about the abortion pill.

But, in today’s world, getting information isn’t the problem. What does this information mean for you? How might your future journey look for you?

If you wish, our trained counsellors and skilled listeners are here to help you answer these questions. We won’t tell you what to do; instead, we’ll give you a space where you can explore your feelings.

Our Helpline is free, non-judgmental, and used by 1,500+ people every month as they navigate unexpected pregnancy. 99% of people surveyed said talking on our Helpline was helpful for them.

Please note we do not refer for abortion. Our service is non-directive, meaning that we do not tell you what to do.

What is the abortion pill?

The abortion pill is a method of abortion. It is actually two medications that are taken through a number of pills.

The first medication is mifepristone. This is in one tablet. It causes the loss of the pregnancy. It works by blocking progesterone, the main pregnancy hormone, causing the lining of the uterus to break down.

The second medication is misoprostol. This is usually a number of tablets that either dissolve in your mouth or you insert into your vagina. It causes contractions so that the pregnancy will come out of the vagina.

What are other names for the abortion pill?

You might find abortion pills called “home abortion”, “DIY abortion”, “medication abortion”, or “telemedicine abortion”.

What are abortion pill side effects?

Everyone having medical abortion experiences:

  • Pain
  • Cramping
  • Vaginal bleeding

Pain can be severe in some cases.

Common side effects include:

  • Nausea
  • Vomiting
  • Diarrhoea
  • Headache
  • Dizziness
  • Fever/chills

Less common side effects can include (among others):

  • Some of the pregnancy remains in the womb
  • Very heavy bleeding
  • Infection of the womb or Fallopian tubes

Sometimes, further medical procedures may be necessary, like a surgical abortion or having antibiotics.

Call 999 or go to A&E if you recently had an abortion and are bleeding heavily. Find your nearest A&E here.

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We don’t provide abortion pills and we have no financial interest in your decision; we don’t receive money as a result of what decisions you make in your pregnancy. Everything is provided to you free of charge by our generous and compassionate donors.

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Our Helpline is free, non-judgmental, and used by 1,500+ people every month as they navigate unexpected pregnancy. 99% of people surveyed said talking on our Helpline was helpful for them.

Please note we do not refer for abortion. Our service is non-directive, meaning that we do not tell you what to do.

Page last updated: 22 July 2025